wasn't enough
For years, I sat across from therapists and did the work โ the talking, the analyzing, the naming. And while I gained insight, something kept getting stuck. The feelings I could articulate in a session would find their way back into my body by the end of the week, coiled up in my chest, my jaw, the base of my skull. I knew intuitively that language alone wasn't reaching what needed to move.
On my own healing journey, I stumbled onto something that changed everything: the body stores what the mind can't yet hold. And before the nervous system can truly release โ before breathwork, before meditation, before any of it can fully land โ the fascia has to soften first. Fascia is the connective tissue that wraps around every muscle, organ, and bone in your body. When we experience stress, grief, or prolonged tension, it tightens. And it holds on.
I began working with small massage therapy balls (I use Tune Up Fitness balls, though the technique matters more than the brand) to roll through the areas where I felt the most held. The changes were quiet at first โ a deeper breath here, a released jaw there. Over time, the shifts became profound. I felt emotions surface and complete without story. I felt my body actually settle, sometimes for the first time in years.
This is the sequence I return to. I share it here not as a prescription, but as an offering โ a place to begin, or return to, when your body is asking to be heard. It pairs beautifully with the work we do together in sound bath and tarot sessions, as a way of continuing the conversation your body started.